Jealousy:::(

        People often misinterpret the meaning of the word ''JEALOUSY''.
According to me there's no human being born without jealousy which is the secondary emotion which is generated in self by anticipating some gain or loss in the life. Jealousy is always confused with envy but if we try to understand it properly we can come to know that this secondary emotion is a familiar experience in human relationships. A pregnant woman aspires to get an angel like child looking at the neighbor's child. We can’t say the woman is jealous over the neighbor but, it’s the common feeling when we aspire something good.

The common experience of jealousy for many people may involve:

§        Fear of loss

§        Suspicion of or anger about a perceived betrayal

§        Low self-esteem and sadness over perceived loss

§        Uncertainty and loneliness

§        Fear of losing an important person to another

§        Distrust

The main thing to notice above is the experience of envy like inferiority does not exist. Another thing to notice is the person with envy can have too much jealousy.’ Feelings of envy about a rival can even intensify the experience of jealousy.

The main thing we have to understand at the end is we have to understand the positivity of the word jealousy and come to the conclusion that jealousy is just a secondary feeling in the humans.

'' There's no zeal without the jealousy in one's life coz its the world of competition and its better to know the simple thing behind the reality that even your shadow doesn't follow you when you are in dark.''                                         

                                                                by:-         

                                                                     Swagath Deepu:)

                                                                                 JNV Mysore Alumni